Congregation Ner Shalom

Welcome To Ner Shalom

Ner Shalom has been the home of the Jewish Community in Prince William Country for four generations. We are deeply connected with and committed to serving the people in Prince William County, Virginia, in the Greater D.C. area. We host and participate in interfaith collaborations and social justice outreach, and actively support efforts on behalf of those who are most vulnerable. We are joyful in our celebrations and grateful for our blessings.

We hope to always be the Light of Peace, dedicated to the ideals of justice, kindness, and faith. All who feel a kinship with the Jewish Community are welcome here.

Our synagogue is more than a building, school, or set of programs. Congregation Ner Shalom is its membership, pure and simple. Our members come from all over the world and represent every stream of Jewish thought and practice. With membership, we commit ourselves to a journey of discovery, where each of us, in our own way, deepens our connection to Judaism and ties to Israel. Some of us will discover greater Jewish meaning in Torah classes; some with new friends in a Jewish group; some from worship and singing; some through acts of Tikkun Olam. Join us and we'll help you discover your unique path.

Congregation Ner Shalom is more than a journey; it's a destination. The Hebrew term for synagogue is Bet Kneset - Home for Gathering. Some refer to a synagogue as a Bet Midrash - a Home of Study or a Bet Tefillah - a Home for prayer. By forging your own Jewish path with us, we can create a home together that honors all of the meaning and hope in our name.

Join us for Shabbat or an event that interests you to meet the members and the Rabbi. If you would like more information, we can send you a packet of information including a newsletter, calendar of upcoming events, schedule of services and school brochures.

Facing The Rise in Antisemitism

As you may have seen, heard, or felt, antisemitism has spiked again in this last month, as has Islamophobia and anti-Arab racism. Ner Shalom is here for any support we can provide, and in the case of housing or employment discrimination, please know that the Prince William County Human Rights Commission is also here for you.

#IAmNerShalom

We are The Light of Peace.

Congregation Ner Shalom - Our Home

Rabbi Lizz Goldstein

Be a Light, Buy a Light

Congregation Ner Shalom’s purpose for the world is to repair the tears of the world (Tikkun Olam) by promoting Jewish and interfaith relations and advocacy for justice.

Congregation Ner Shalom’s purpose for the community is to create a spiritual home and family that welcomes people of various backgrounds, to advocate for justice, and to embrace interfaith collaboration.

Congregation Ner Shalom’s purpose for the individual is to support their home and family, to inculcate education and social awareness, and to practice and enrich their faith.

We host programs and activities for members of all ages.

We are dedicated to preserving the traditions of the past, and pledged to serving the spiritual, cultural, educational and social needs of our congregation and the community in the present.

We are committed to providing innovative and progressive ideas to meet the challenges of the future.

We are a diverse congregation, intentionally reaching out to all people and making a conscious effort to make everyone feel comfortable and welcome.

We welcome everyone who is interested in participating in the lively, vibrant world of Reform Judaism.

Judaism stresses community. Ner Shalom is your Jewish community, as well as your extended family in Prince William County, Virginia.

We STRIVE to build a community based on inclusiveness, where everyone is welcome, regardless of race, age, ability, marital status, sexual orientation, gender identity, a Jew by birth or by choice, as well as those who are seeking religious identity, learning and experiences, life cycle rituals, and spiritual guidance.

Joining Ner Shalom as a Member.

If you wish to be considered for membership at CNS, please use the NEW Membership Application form found on the website or call our offices for guidance. Members who are renewing should use the 2023 -2024 Membership Renewal Form.

HEALTH CONSIDERATIONS: Although the specter of global pandemic has receded, at Ner Shalom we are respectful of the needs of the most vulnerable in our community. We have air filters for our building and use outdoor spaces when practical. For the health and safety of all, we expect all who wish to share space with others to be fully vaccinated (with up to date boosters and Flu shots), to maintain social distance or wear masks when guided to do so, be particularly mindful of the need to care for others, and wash hands regularly as a precaution. Doing so fulfills the mitzvah of pekuach nefesh (preserving life).

May the Holy One keep us all safe, healthy, and united as a community.

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Upcoming Events

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Friday ,
MayMay 23 , 2025

Shabbat Services
Friday, May 23rd 7:30p to 8:30p
Erev Shabbat Services most Friday nights at 7:30 in the sanctuary All are welcome! Whether this is your first Shabbat, rekindling an old faith, or you join us every week we can't wait to see you. Services usually include Shabbat prayers, a message from our Rabbi Lizz Goldstein, and an Oneg (desserts and snacks). Please come as you are and enjoy the quiet meditation, song, and community of Shabbat services.
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Saturday ,
MayMay 24 , 2025

Hawver Bar Mitzvah
Shabbat, May 24th 10:00a to 12:00p
Ethan Hawever
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Sunday ,
MayMay 25 , 2025

Adult B'nai Mitzvah Class
Sunday, May 25th 1:00p to 2:00p
This is a course for Jewish people over 18 who wish to have a B' Mitzvah service and celebration. Whether you converted to Judaism, weren't raised in a shul, were raised in a shul that didn't allow your gender to have such a service, or even if you had one at 13 and are ready for a do-over, you are welcome in this class. You will learn or relearn some staples of Jewish liturgy, Torah, hone D'var Torah writing and service-leading skills, and generally have a space to ask whatever questions about Judaism you have felt haven't been answered adequately for you up to this point (I can't promise to have a more adequate answer, but let's talk about it!). We will collectively discuss dates and services for class members to lead and celebrate their becoming a Bar/Bat/MiBeit Mitzvah. Classes will meet in person. If you are interested and cannot attend a class, please let Rabbi Lizz know.
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Sunday ,
MayMay 25 , 2025

Field Day
Sunday, May 25th 3:00p to 6:00p
In the vein of Lag BaOmer, though a few days late, we will have a day of field games, lawn games, ice cream and pizza! Plus Archery for teens, and a splash pad for kids 10 and under! Finishing the evening with a campfire and smores.
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Monday ,
MayMay 26 , 2025

Torah Study
Monday, May 26th 7:00p to 8:00p
A weekly discussion of Parashat HaShavua. Via Zoom. Reach out if you need the zoom info.
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Wednesday ,
MayMay 28 , 2025

Rosh Chodesh Moon Circle
Wednesday, May 28th 6:30p to 8:00p
Rosh Chodesh Moon Circle at Ner Shalom The Origins of Rosh Chodesh (taken from At The Well (atthewellproject.com) The marking of time has been important for the Jewish people since the moment of leaving slavery in Egypt. The very first commandment G-d gave in the Book of Exodus, while the Jews wandered through the desert from slavery to the promised land, was for the Jewish people to mark each new moon. From this, we learn that the meaning of freedom is intertwined with agency over our own time. Each new month is another reminder of this freedom. In biblical days, there were no written calendars to consult. Instead, two designated New Moon-seekers would climb to the top of a hill and wait for a clear sky, since Rosh Chodesh occurs when there is the first sliver of the moon after a completely dark sky. When they were absolutely sure that there was a sliver of light, they’d report their findings back to the Great Sanhedrin, the ancient Jewish court. Then, someone would climb to the top of the Mount of Olives in Jerusalem (a very steep climb!) with a long pole of cedar, reeds, and olive. They’d set the pole on fire until someone on another hilltop saw them, then that person would light a fire until they saw a third person on the hill over, and this would go on until the message reached the edges of Babylonia. Talk about the illuminating power of Rosh Chodesh! How Did Rosh Chodesh Become a Holiday for Women? The entire Jewish people received the teaching to honor Rosh Chodesh. But over time, it became especially associated as a time for women. One explanation, offered by a Medieval rabbi, teaches that when all the men decided to create the Golden Calf, the women refused to relinquish their jewelry and participate. Their bravery and faith in G-d resulted in the reward of a special holiday to rest, reflect, and reset every month. (So this holiday is also a commemoration of the power of resisting the patriarchy!) Rosh Chodesh offers us a time every month to honor the Shechinah, the feminine mystical aspect of the Divine. The waxing and waning of the moon also resembles the menstrual cycle. For menstruators, Rosh Chodesh can be a way to connect more deeply with our bodies and the internal “clock” of our fertility cycle. Whether or not you menstruate, committing to Rosh Chodesh rituals can offer a modern Jewish well-being practice rooted in ancient tradition and a way to honor our brave female ancestors. So is this only for women? Nope! Women of all stripes, Trans people, and Non-binary folx are invited. (Katie Simon, creator of this document, is non-binary herself). What will we do? We’re still figuring that out! But we have a Moon Manual from the organization ‘At the Well’ to guide us in the overall structure and guided teachings and practices. These will change every month depending on the theme but will include writing, art, dance, meditation and relaxation along with time to connect and share with the other members of the Moon Circle. Why Celebrate? For everyone: We’re feeling the need for community. To come together and get negative feelings out while setting ourselves up for the Month feeling good. To realize just how much support and caring are around us and ready to hold us. For Jews: Reclaiming Rosh Chodesh is a way to connect to ancient foremothers and bring their wisdom and steadfastness into our lives currently embroiled in upheaval. We will honor the sacredness in our souls and honor the Feminine Divine of the Shekhinah. We will honor each other and ourselves. We will engage with the full breadth and depth of our joy and our pain. What will this look like? When you arrive at Ner Shalom, we will greet you with a tallit or shawl and a blessing. Bring your own if you have it. This can be a pashmina scarf, shawl or tallit if you have one! We will make sure to have something beautiful to wrap you in if you don’t. Then we will Reset, Reflect and Transform with different guided teachings and practices. This could be: journaling, making art, transcendent dance, meditation, etc. We intend this to be a safe space to share your worries, your joys, even your rage. We hope to leave the space restored, grounded, and ready to embrace the month ahead! RSVP https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdki7w21OynokQ-vchS0R2HfPcbgcMU2kGBss2aKQloiwX5lA/viewform or if you have any questions text Katie Simon @ 267-992-7895
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Friday ,
MayMay 30 , 2025

Shabbat Services
Friday, May 30th 7:30p to 8:30p
Erev Shabbat Services most Friday nights at 7:30 in the sanctuary All are welcome! Whether this is your first Shabbat, rekindling an old faith, or you join us every week we can't wait to see you. Services usually include Shabbat prayers, a message from our Rabbi Lizz Goldstein, and an Oneg (desserts and snacks). Please come as you are and enjoy the quiet meditation, song, and community of Shabbat services.
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Sunday ,
JunJune 1 , 2025

General Membership Meeting
Sunday, Jun 1st 10:00a to 11:00a
For Congregational Members only - please join us for our yearly review of our programs and budget, and be a part of decision making for the coming year!
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Sunday ,
JunJune 1 , 2025

Adult B'nai Mitzvah Class
Sunday, Jun 1st 1:00p to 2:00p
This is a course for Jewish people over 18 who wish to have a B' Mitzvah service and celebration. Whether you converted to Judaism, weren't raised in a shul, were raised in a shul that didn't allow your gender to have such a service, or even if you had one at 13 and are ready for a do-over, you are welcome in this class. You will learn or relearn some staples of Jewish liturgy, Torah, hone D'var Torah writing and service-leading skills, and generally have a space to ask whatever questions about Judaism you have felt haven't been answered adequately for you up to this point (I can't promise to have a more adequate answer, but let's talk about it!). We will collectively discuss dates and services for class members to lead and celebrate their becoming a Bar/Bat/MiBeit Mitzvah. Classes will meet in person. If you are interested and cannot attend a class, please let Rabbi Lizz know.
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Sunday ,
JunJune 1 , 2025

Faith and Labor Symposium
Sunday, Jun 1st 4:30p to 8:00p
Join us for a Labor-focused Shavuot, as we dive into texts from Jewish, Christian, and Muslim perspectives that inspire us to support the workers in our communities. We will also hear from a Virginia labor organizer about the real, current state of affairs and what we can do about them. Following our panel, there will be a vegetarian potluck (Ner Shalom will provide the traditional Shavuot blintzes, you bring whatever other delicious meat-free offerings you would like to share!). Weather permitting, Erev Shavuot services will be held outside to close out the evening.
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